fearing the criticism

We often don't do the thing because we're afraid of what people will think. What will they say? Maybe they'll think I'm a bad person. They'll think I'm not good enough.

But when we get so caught up in avoiding the criticism or avoiding the judgment, we end up judging ourselves. We distill ourselves down to bland versions - the ones that are approved of by all but are playing small.

And when we censor ourselves to the nth degree, we cut off our voice, we cut out our uniqueness - which in my experience, only leaves us feeling even more hallow, judged, unheard and alone.

And so today, what would you do if no one was there to watch you do it? What would you do if you knew someone needed you to go after the thing so that they could have the guts to do it too?

• Maybe you'd wear whatever you want.

• Maybe you'd invest in yourself.

• Maybe you'd apply for that promotion.

• Maybe you'd have the tough conversation you've been avoiding.

• Maybe you'd quit the job you can't stand - even in the midst of a pandemic.

• Maybe you'd switch industries.

• Maybe you'd break up with your partner or ask someone you have a crush on out on a date.

• Maybe you'd share how you're truly feeling publicly.

These are the things my bada$$ clients are doing, and I know you can do them too.

And if the fear and the criticism seem too big to overcome, know I've been there too. Message me, and let's chat because hiding and staying small doesn't feel good - and the world needs you to be your bright, awesome, full self!

And maybe you're like me and you'd wear togas to Beer Olympics. 😉

...I just have to shout out to Adam for *almost* always being game to dress up with me, despite the occasion. And to all my beer loving friends - cheers to you! Thank you for embracing us (and our uniqueness)!