what if we don't feel like we're enough?

Real talk here - Are you enough? As you are right now, do you feel you are enough?

I only ask because my answer not too long ago would have been "I'm afraid I'm not."

And I didn't realize until recently that a lot of us feel that way. And looking back, it makes sense - we inherit this fear from our drive to succeed, from chasing perfection, from searching for approval.

And it's not a bad thing. We want to be smart enough, rich enough, popular enough, pretty enough. We want all of these things because they're tied deeply to our very human needs of love, safety and belonging.

But I also know it's not fun to feel like you'll never measure up. It's overwhelming to dwell on the idea that no matter what you do you'll never be enough.

And if you're in the camp of feeling this way, reach out to me. Let's chat. Because I've been there too. And I know that everyone experiences this in a slightly different way. So I'd love to hear about what's going on for you. I'm doing a really cool project coming up on this and would really appreciate your input. So text or call me - 317.501.9981.

Maybe together we can better understand where this comes from so we can cure the world of its not-enough-ness.