for when you don't believe you can have it

Disbelief is the first stage.
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It doesn't mean you can't have it if you don't believe it'll happen. It just means you're in the first stage - disbelief.
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Whenever we're going for something outside of our comfort zone, we're going to be in disbelief - especially if we really want it. It makes sense that your brain wants to tell you the door to what you want is closed.
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Your brain would rather be disappointed ahead of time than risk failing at the thing you want most. So it'll tell you what you want isn't possible. It's just not for you.
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This is just disbelief.
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And all it means is that you want it. And you can still get it.
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And I get it - this sucks to be in disbelief and to be disappointing ourselves ahead of time. It's so frustrating and sad and exhausting that you don't have it yet - I hear you. Disbelief is hard. We can grieve it.
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And we can also help your brain step into possibility (stage 2).
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What if it could happen? Why might it happen? Who else has what you want?
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And my favorite - if you really want it, how would it feel to commit to it? You're getting it - you're just going to try and if you fail, you won't give up until you get it. Because as long as you don't give up, it's guaranteed you'll get it.
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This opens up so much possibility. It's destined for you. You can't miss it. It wants you back.
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I've see this time and time again. Disbelief is not a problem. It's just the first stage.
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Whether you're looking for a job, growing a business, finding a partner, growing your family, moving somewhere magical.
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It's happening as long as you don't give up.
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And I've got your back - I'll hold your dream for you, even when you're in the disbelief. I know you can do it. Join me here.